what?

Ask what.

Not why.

I find myself asking too often, Why? Why am I here? Why is this happening now?

Talking to my mom recently, she related a story to me and I realized I needed to be asking What?

What am I supposed to be doing here? What am I supposed to be doing now? What changes need to be made?

God wants our wills . . . so I guess I could try a little harder to be doing what he knows is best for me, and asking what actions that requires of me.